Chung Kun Lim
Chung Kun Lim was born in 1944 in Jeonju, her childhood shaped by the displacement of the Korean War and the constant threat of bombings. As the seventh of eight daughters, she was raised under strict discipline in a society that traditionally prioritized male heirs—a reality she felt deeply when her mother’s hard-won educational legacy was eventually inherited by male relatives rather than the daughters who helped build it. A talented soprano, Chung Kun majored in vocal music at Sookmyung Women’s University—she jokes about how all her crying must have trained her vocal chords—before immigrating to the United States in 1966.
In America, she traded her musical aspirations for the back-breaking, restless work of dry cleaning; by her estimate, she and her husband likely opened one of the first Korean-owned dry cleaners in the country. While this relentless labor secured her children’s education and success, it came at the cost of their mother tongue, a linguistic gap she regrets.
Yet when reflecting on her years of “meaningful hardship,” Chung Kun views her children’s character as her true inheritance, saying, “they’ve met wonderful partners, and are kind to us… I have nothing more to ask for.” Today, she finds peace in the knowledge that her sacrifices paved the path for her children’s lives in America, giving thanks to God for her health and strength throughout the years.
Special thanks to the American Friends Service Committee and the Korean American Foundation for sponsoring this Legacy Project interview.