Suki Park and Lauren Yoo
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Today, we’re highlighting Family Touch, a non-profit organization based in Bergen County, New Jersey which provides affordable educational programs and counseling services to immigrants and their families for sustainable, long-term community growth. From parenting workshops and family counseling to senior forums and youth leadership programs, Family Touch offers a wide range of resources which address issues pertinent for immigrants’ well-being and community engagement.
In this heartfelt conversation between Suki Park and her daughter Lauren, we’re invited to listen in on how counseling services at Family Touch helped Suki and her children navigate through a particularly difficult time within their family.
Born and raised in Samcheonpo, a small fishing village in South Gyeongsang Province, Suki grew up with her two older brothers alongside their grandparents. After college, she moved to Seoul to work, and it was in the metropolis where she met Lauren’s father, who lived in the United States. Suki moved to America to be with her husband, where would have two children. After she and her husband divorced, Suki describes feeling overburdened with the responsibility of living in a unfamiliar country while raising two young children: both the language and the culture were foreign. Through it all, she tells us that she feels sorry to her kids for wanting to have created a more harmonious family environment.
For Suki, the idea of talking with strangers about her personal struggles felt relieving; unlike someone familiar with her position, who might have judged, a counselor would provide empathy and counsel. Not only did she begin to repair her relationship with herself, she also learned of aspects of her childhood which she did not want to give her children, refusing to pass down generational trauma. In reflecting on the difficult times as a mother in an unfamiliar environment she says, “Everyone has times when life flows in directions they want or don’t want… but would I be the only one feeling this way?”