Joseph Kim
After his family immigrated to America in 1976, Joseph Kim and his brother grew up being one of the only non-white students in their community. Though his parents worked hard to help them fit in, he still endured teasing because of his race and financial status. He recollects when an old teacher at school called him a racial slur–extremely shocked and angry, fourteen-year-old Joseph did not know how to react. Though initially contemplating more extreme action to take his anger out on that adult, he settled on a more peaceful resolution.
As a young man, he found two communities for himself: one within the Asian American church, and one in the rock genre of music. His dream was to become a musician, but his mother gave him the choice to continue his education after two years of pursuing music. Eventually, he became a professor.
Through living in Japan for seven years, Joseph realized the different ways his identity was viewed; in Japan, people saw him as simply a Korean who speaks English, but once he moved to Korea he felt more American. He is currently a professor of nonverbal communication at the school of business of Sungkyunkwan University in Seoul, South Korea. He also has a company called H2H, which deals with communication among international companies. He is a single father with two teenage sons; he hopes that through his own Korean American story, his sons will realize how making their own choices will shape their lives, and how the ability to make those choices can empower them.